The time for being firm with boundaries with your friend has come.
He needs to back off, you should tell him that you are friends and that's all you will ever be. Cut down on the contact with him. And it needs to be clear that if he pushes it will affect your friendship negatively. That you can't be around anyone who disrespects your relationship with your bf.
I honestly wouldn't stay friends with someone like this. He's jeopardizing your relationship with your bf.
I hope OP sees this and replies that back to him
The time for being firm with boundaries with your friend has come.
He needs to back off, you should tell him that you are friends and that's all you will ever be. Cut down on the contact with him. And it needs to be clear that if he pushes it will affect your friendship negatively. That you can't be around anyone who disrespects your relationship with your bf.
I honestly wouldn't stay friends with someone like this. He's jeopardizing your relationship with your bf.